Self-esteem is an internalizing of who and what you are. Knowing and understanding who we are is essential to the growth process of every individual. Lack of such knowledge or the internalizing of wrong ideas about themselves can cause lasting negative effects on a person’s self-worth. Your youngest students will not understand that it is not dependent upon talents, clothes, appearance, etc., so one thing you will have to teach them in your classroom encounters is how to view oneself in the world today.
Set the ExampleThe teacher’s attitude speaks loudly. Teachers must have self-esteem and display confidence. When they walk into your classroom, they are trusting you completely to be their safe place, their steady rock, and their loyal friend for the next 45 minutes. You are their role model. Their young minds are malleable and open; they really do “soak it all in” like a sponge, as they say. Our actions, words, attitudes, ability to handle stress, and tenderness with them says more than we know. It tells them that we are in control, we are safe, we love them and they can be themselves because of it.
Learn About the PersonalitiesEach person is an individual and is unique. It is alright for the outgoing child to be outgoing. Children who are “shy” should be allowed to be shy, and should not have unnecessary attention drawn to them. It is necessary for both of them to be themselves in order to have self-esteem. Taking the time to learn about and understand the personalities has helped me in more ways than I could count. I’ve read Florence Littauer’s Personality Plus more than once since I’ve started teaching, and it has helped me to understand not only why they act in certain ways, but also how to respond that will not only make sense to them, but also affirm them for who they are. It also helps to know that sometimes your personality will totally clash with your student’s, yet you can still find ways to get along and even enjoy each other! You are working with little souls. Don’t forget that. Even though they’re young and don’t understand everything, they still take in a lot from you. In fact, I would even say that because they’re so young, be extra careful with what you say and how you say it, so that they can grow up to be whole, affirmed, confident individuals some day.
When They FailThe joy of accomplishment is important to self-esteem. If your standards for the children are too high, they will feel frustrated, pressured and probably act out. If your expectations are too low, they may get the message that you don’t think they are capable. Accomplishment should be a tool for the development of self-esteem, but should not become self-esteem itself. What you are is more important than what you do. Failure is difficult for the young child to accept, sometimes because they can let it tell them that they are bad or that they are a failure. Just remind them that dancing is a process; it takes time to become good at it. In the meantime, spend as little time dwelling on a failed attempt, and move on quickly to something they love and that they can do. This is why teaching material that is age appropriate is so important. Taking the time to really study the material you’ll be teaching them, how you will teach it and then taking note of how they receive it in class with help them and you progress. Putting a 5 year-old at a ballet barre and expecting perfect tendus from fifth en croix in her once-a-week class will not happen because her body cannot handle all that that particular step requires. However, having her stand on a spot on the floor with her hands on her waist and her feet parallel, she can do some pretty nice “point, togethers” all by herself! She likes to do things well. Don’t we all? Set your students up for a great experience in your classroom week after week. Be an example of confidence, good self-esteem and patience with them for where they are in the learning process. You will find that they want to do their best for you and for themselves every single time. Related Articles
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